Beartooth Frontman Caleb Shomo Comes Out as ‘Proudly Gay Man’ — Wife of 13 Years Breaks Silence on Heartbreaking Split

Beartooth frontman Caleb Shomo came out as a 'proudly gay man' in a statement shared via Instagram on Saturday; Seen performing in 2025 in New Orleans
Beartooth frontman Caleb Shomo came out as a ‘proudly gay man’ in a statement shared via Instagram on Saturday; Seen performing in 2025 in New Orleans

Caleb Shomo, the 33-year-old frontman of rock band Beartooth, has opened up about his sexuality in a heartfelt Instagram post, coming out as a proudly gay man amid months of speculation about his personal life.

Shortly thereafter, his wife of 13 years, Fleur Shomo, penned a message of support while also opening up about their 'disorientating and hurtful' split
Shortly thereafter, his wife of 13 years, Fleur Shomo, penned a message of support while also opening up about their ‘disorientating and hurtful’ split
In his statement, Caleb noted his past music explored 'his religious upbringing, depression, self hatred, self loathing, and hopelessness'
In his statement, Caleb noted his past music explored ‘his religious upbringing, depression, self hatred, self loathing, and hopelessness’
He also admitted he 'spent a decade burying feelings with alcohol' prior to 'reconciling with my sexuality'
He also admitted he ‘spent a decade burying feelings with alcohol’ prior to ‘reconciling with my sexuality’
He concluded his statement by sharing his gratitude for his supporters and extended a message of encouragement to people who are 'struggling with who they are,' asking them to 'give [themselves] grace'
He concluded his statement by sharing his gratitude for his supporters and extended a message of encouragement to people who are ‘struggling with who they are,’ asking them to ‘give [themselves] grace’

In a candid statement to his 213,000 followers, Caleb admitted he had spent years struggling with his identity. “I feel compelled to set the record straight before it affects those I love any further. I am a proudly gay man,” he wrote. He described navigating these feelings as “difficult” and reflected on the decade he spent burying his emotions under alcohol, ultimately finding a path toward self-acceptance and love.

While Caleb did not address their marriage in his statement, Fleur highlighted the 'fun, adventure and love' they experienced together for over a decade
While Caleb did not address their marriage in his statement, Fleur highlighted the ‘fun, adventure and love’ they experienced together for over a decade
The couple tied the knot in 2012, and had been together for approximately two years before they got married
The couple tied the knot in 2012, and had been together for approximately two years before they got married
Caleb also reflected on four 'very self-deprecating [Beartooth] albums' that he created before coming out
Caleb also reflected on four ‘very self-deprecating [Beartooth] albums’ that he created before coming out

Caleb also discussed how his past music reflected his inner turmoil. His four earlier Beartooth albums, he explained, were steeped in themes of religious upbringing, depression, self-hatred, and hopelessness. Yet, he added, they helped him channel his deepest emotions, preparing him to embrace his sexuality openly. Looking forward, Caleb promises that his upcoming music will allow him to express himself fully and authentically.

Five hours after Caleb posted, his wife Fleur broke her silence with her own statement
The first slide was a video of her and Caleb dancing together

Shortly after Caleb’s post, his wife of 13 years, actress Fleur Shomo (née Terry), shared her own message of support. Fleur spoke openly about their “disorientating and hurtful” split while highlighting the love, fun, and adventure they shared during their marriage. She reflected on her own struggles, acknowledging feelings of isolation and emotional pain while trying to support Caleb through this period.

Fleur added a message of hope for others, urging anyone struggling with their identity to “give themselves grace” and focus on self-care. She also honored the love story she and Caleb shared, emphasizing that although their marriage has ended, the bond of care and respect remains.

The couple, who tied the knot in 2012 after two years of dating, have no children together. Caleb concluded his message with gratitude for fans and supporters, thanking those who encouraged him and the LGBTQ+ community for empowering him to live openly.

Caleb’s coming out marks a deeply personal milestone, balancing honesty, vulnerability, and artistic expression, while Fleur’s response demonstrates compassion and resilience in the face of a challenging ending. Together, their statements highlight a journey of self-discovery, mutual respect, and hope for the future.

Source: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/

RELATED ARTICLESMORE FROM AUTHOR